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Mike Peters's avatar

When my children were small I documented much of their lives. At a certain point I realized that the camera kept me from fully engaging in those moments. So I decided that I needed to put the camera down at times and be present to my kids and my life in a way that isn’t possible when you’re balancing the technical aspects of making a good photo with the aesthetic decisions that have to be made. I treasure the photos that I have, but the time I spent without a camera in front of my face is far more important to my relationships with everyone in my life.

I truly cannot do two things at once, and I think anyone who thinks otherwise is deluding themselves. Be where you are. When making photographs, just do that. When with family and friends, just do that, maybe with a few moments to make a memory. But remember to be a part of your own life, and not apart from it.

Find balance.

And decide what is important to focus your time on. You don’t have to photograph everything.

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Michael Ross's avatar

Interesting ideas here, but the story ultimately begs the question: "Weren't you, a person, dare I say it, obsessed with photography, carrying an actual camera on your trip?"

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